Monday, April 17
Washington
Roger Murff and Greta Kim's children Sophie Taylor and Thomas, in Seattle (12/8/05). This photo taken on their house porch, on a sunny afternoon in WA. Thomas is the biggest 4 year old I know (a clown after my own heart, too); while Sophie an elegant little girl.
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Saturday, April 15
10K
Sonnet faces a road race in Clapham Common, London (3/10/04).
Sonnet often runs into work, making her the most eccentric curator at the V A. The kids were fascinated by the activity, and a bit suspicious of so many adults doing something so clearly stupid. Afterwards we are joined by Dale and Mendi and their four fab kids for brunch.
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Tate!
This picture, taken at the Tate gallery London, was the last in a series where Katie becomes more posed and Eitan bored - hence the tongue (23/12/04). Afterwards we took the Tate-to-Tate boat to the Tate Modern where, since it was winter, a faux snow slide was erected offering something the museum could not - one hour of kiddie fun.
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One Determined Little Girl
Madeleine would have repelled those invaders at Windso Castle, where this image was taken (24/12/03). I don't recall what the fuss was about, but am fairly certain she had her way in the end - probably McDonalds for lunch. This was the Christmas that the Orensteins re-united briefly in London.
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Dreams of England
Eitan takes to football (9/3/05) where he plays each week in the pee-wee league nearby our house. The boy was quite excited by his all-England outfit (shirt on backwards) and cool cleats for the pitch. Morning practice preceded by swimming lessons; followed by a lunch and a long nap.
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Peter Pan
Grandpa Stan reads an all-time classic (20/3/05). The Stanfills, who are noted anglophiles, visit London frequently to see us, and recitals at St. Martin in the Field, the Elgin Marbles and British Museum, and the Royal Opera House in Covent Garden. Notable trips have been to Hadrian's Wall and the Durham Cathedral in the Midlands.
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Your intrepid photographer
It's a family jungle out there, and somebody has to photograph it. This shot of me taken in Regent's park on any typical weekend (29/5/05).
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Diana Memorial
Eitan rests his feet in the circular marble fountain in Hyde Park, next to the Serpentine (16/5/05). Remarkably children are not allowed in or around the memorial, and we were informed repeatedly that 'no playing allowed.' On a hot day, in the middle of a manicured, grassy field, not being able to let one's feet cool off in the icy water is, well, next to torture.
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Friday, April 14
Summer Fair
Madeleine and I spend the day together at the 2005 summer fair. Eitan was being punished for poor behavior, and misses out on the festivities which included a bouncy castle, face painting, cotton candy and other junk food and bbq - a favorite. It isa hot June day, and Madeleine is happy and worn out by the time we have a break, which the picture shows in better detail than I can explain.
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Candy Floss
Madeleine discovers cotton candy at the summer. The school,where Eitan attends reception, located several blocks from our home and the fair brings in a good chunk of the PTA's annual budget - around £14,000 in 2005. As the newest PTA member I am helping organise the 2006 campaign with other parent volunteers; I will also be the clown as this year's theme is 'circus' - is this the sort of thing that eventually drives our children from us?
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That '70s feeling
'Uncle' Anthony's 30th birthday party served up a disco theme (note to reader: this is not Anto's normal hairstyle). We spend the afternoon at the BBQ picnic surrounded by many cool cats from London's younger and cooler community. We are the only guests with kids.... by a mile. While we leave at 5PM, the action goes on until 7AM Sunday morning - I note during this time Sonnet and I sleep 9 hours.
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Say cheeeese
Eitan shows once again that he is a natural in front of the camera. This photo taken at the Barnes station, summer 2003 (12/8/03). It was unusually hot.
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Summer visit
Moe and I somewhere in Kew Gardens (24/8/03). I recall a warm, lazy day - while London may be cold and grey a good part of the year the pay-back comes during the summer months when the sun sets late offering a second half to the day. Wimbledon tennis sets the tone in June while August the UK and much of Europe shuts down for four weeks.
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Thursday, April 13
Picadilly Circus
This photograph taken at night from the southside of the circus, facing north (21/10/03). Similar to New York's Times Square perhaps the circus connects Regent St, Picadilly and Shaftsbury Ave; because of its proximity to Soho, the circus was a significant meeting point in the underground history of homosexuals in Britain, especially for prostitution and informal 'encounters.'
When Alfred Kinsey visited London to study English sexual attitudes, he immediately asked to be taken on a sexual tour of Soho. The area around Piccadilly Circus and Leicester Square astounded him. Comparing London to the Hispanic sexual cultures of central America, Kinsey claimed that he had never seen so much street prostitution, except in Havana. And there you have it.
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Tuesday, April 11
World Cup 2018?
Eitan wacks the ball in the late fall 2003 (26/10/03). He and Madeleine have football - er soccer - practice once a week, come rain or shine. Of 120 kids, Madeleine is the only girl - and we are quite proud of this.
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There's nothing like a Coca-Cola
Eitan slurps down his favorite drink following an exhausting morning at Kew Gardens - at least for me and Sonnet (23/10/03).
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Is everyone crazy but me?
Madeleine at one year makes an effort to come to grips with her near surroundings (18/1/03). For instance - why is somebody pointing a strange device at me and asking for a funny face? I mean, what's up with that?
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Saturday, April 8
万里长城 - The Great Wall
The Great Wall is a Chinese fortification begun around 220 BC then expanded to its present length of 6,300 km in the 14th to 17th centuries by the Ming Empire to protect itself from raids by Mongol and other nomadic tribes. I visited on a cold spring day, following a trip to the Ming Tombs which is equally impressive - 500,000 men over 25 years to build the crypt only discovered in the latter half of the 20th century.
The Mao expression on the oblix next to me says loosely: 'one cannot know China without visiting the Great Wall.'
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Singapore Sling
Singapore, where I was last week speaking at the Asian Summit conference, is one giant shopping mall. It is hot. Singapore competes with Hong Kong as a convenient and Business friendly launch pad for Asia.
The Government runs the island with a strong hand and has been extremely successful educating its population in relevant disciplines to increase standard of living. It is also the cleanest place I have ever been. Highlights included the Asian Civilisation museum, Singapore Slings at Raffles Hotel and the hotel poolside especially around cocktail hour.
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Forbidden City
I spend a week in Beijing and was struck by the City's pace. Beijing has a population of 16 million and is the second largest in China after Shanghai. It is 'modernising' in preparation of the '08 Olympics, and the cityline is defined by high-rise condominiums and western-style office towers; much of the old city (and poor neighborhoods) has been demolished.
While there are many striking statistics regarding China, one that has social implications: there are twice as many Chines between the ages of 30-40 than under 15 thanks to the one-child policy. China is aging quickly and unlike India where 75% of the population is under 35, China does not have an expanding labour pool. Any case it was fascinating including the Great Wall, Mao Memorial, Ming tombs, Tianemen Square and Forbidden City (pictured).
Two books I recommend are Anchee Min's 'Empress Orchid' the last Empress of China and Philip Short's 'Mao A Life'.
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Monday, April 3
The Chase
This photograph, taken in front of the Natural History Museum in South Kensington, presents Madeleine moments before being pummeled by her brother (27/7/03). Eitan is upset as his 'space' - somewhere over Oceana - invaded by her. Unlike with my Pentax SuperME where I develop b&w film the old fashioned way, I take plenty of digital photos with an Olympus Camedia rarely erasing (nor editing) the outcome.
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Sing'n in the Rain
Eitan discovers a puddle, and is content for a half hour to jump in, out, over and around (21/10/03). I wait patiently before jerking him along the sidewalk... to the next puddle. Repeat. repeat.. repeat... repeat....
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Chanukah
Ceremony celebrated with Shai and Ada Weiss in London (12/7/03). This the first time the kids (or at least Eitan) can appreciate the story of the lights. Sonnet prepared a brisket from a recipe passed down from great great grandma Ev Orenstein (nb Eitan wares his 'Bob the Builder' back-pack for the occasion).
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Saturday, April 1
Katie
A nice photograph of Katie taken by an unknown (to me) photographer at the completion of her book "Little Red Riding Hood Uncloaked" which was on the Amazon best-seller list and reviewed by The New York Times, WSJ, Newsweek, Time and other. This picture taken from the jacket cover (10/4/02).
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4 A.M.
In this early photo in Lauderdale Mansions, Eitan test drives his lungs - I report that they work (sometime November 2000). While these memories are generally quite hazy (if recalled at all) I imagine the next two hours spent feeding the boy, awaiting the sun-rise and preparing for work (and some peace and quiet).
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Friday, March 31
More clowning in Richmond Park
I took a number of pictures of Eitan and Madeleine for our 2005 holiday card, which never did make it to a mailing (8/10/05). The aim was to catch the late evening light, which I missed by about 45 minutes. Still a number of shots I think are funny so I post another one here.
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Thursday, March 30
Merry Pumpkin
Madeleine carves the orange pumpkin in anticipation of trick 'o treating in our neighborhood. There is a sufficient ex-pat community to support a pillow case full of goods. While neither kid has any idea what the festivities are about (nor do I for the record) they know a good house (mini Mars bars, Hershey kisses) from bad (apples or any kind of fruit stuff).
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Wednesday, March 29
Kew Gardens
A favourite weekend activity is a group outing at KeGardens, located next to the river and designated a World Heritage Site by UNESCO in 2003. The grounds offer plenty of room to explore including rose gardens, seasonal plants and flora and the Palm House which is the largest Victorian glasshouse in existence. Rainy days are spent inside at the Climbers & Creepers inter-active play area. This photograph taken on a (typically) grey January Sunday afternoon followed most likely by home-made pizza or spaghetti family style.
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Monday, March 20
Marcus at PowderHorn
Sonnet's brother takes advantage of the snow and sun in the Colorado Rockies. During his visit from Kathmandu, our hero helps his parents move into their new home, searches for the next great NGO and visits Walnut Creek to support a friend in need.
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Saturday, March 18
London map
I thought it would be useful to post a map of London showing where we live. Our burough is Richmond, located in Southwest London and south of the Thames river. We are aproximately one quarter mile from London's Richmond Park which is about the same size as Central Park in Manhattan or 7.2 miles in diameter for those runners amongst us - it also has a history dating back to 1272 and is where Charles I brought his Court to escape the plague in 1625. Otherwise the neighborhood is very English with a large American and European ex-patriot community; it is also the home of Mick Jagger and is where the Stones and The Who got their start http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richmond_upon_Thames.
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Friday, March 17
He's a little bit country
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Wednesday, March 15
New Year's Day 10-K
I entered this race in Hyde Park on a wing and a prayer, and crossed the finish line in one piece - barely. The five extra 5 kilograms on my mid-section resulted in a fairly unpleasant and painful experience the second half of the race. Middle age, also known as 'Masters' finishing line time of 40:28.
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Sunday, March 12
Steely Eyed Stair
Eric during a visit to Boston while raising dough for BlueRun Ventures. My return flight delayed 24 hours due to the British Airways catering services, who strike for all they're worth making hundreds of thousands of us innocents miserable. Despite Eric's natural alliance with labour, he is sympathetic to my cause: "may they eat their own dog food". My photo here captures Eric's lizard-like stare when laying down the law to his two sons and daughter - his children being more disciplined then mine.
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Reading time
There's a lot going on in this photo, taken during Grace and Moe's January '06 visit (27/1/06). Mom is reading before bed-time, the kids are 'amped' by the attention and of course I am taking the photo, which is not well received by Eitan in particular.
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Friday, March 10
Eitan in the movies
Eitan was spotted last weekend in Richmond Park (29/7/03) by a movie agent and asked to try-out for a centrol role in the re-make of Michael Caine's Alfie as Ruby's son (Marisa Tomei''s character). Happily the Boy refused to repeat a single memorised line, ran-amuck around the office studio and then had a tantrum (all on studio tape). For his efforts, he was rewarded with McDonald's - pictured. (Nb while we were all disappointed that Eitan did not get the part, none more so than our nanny Letty who had visions of Hollywood celebrity and chauffered limosines).
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Strawberry
Madeleine and I spent a day together searching out ice cream parlors in Richmond - not an easy thing to do in England in January, by the way. Sonnet was off somewhere with Eitan, so we shared a bonding moment together eventually locating a Hagen Daaz on the hight street. Madeleine's favorite: unquestionably strawberry. JO
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Come Fly With Me
Dulles Airport following a seven hour flight (July '04). Worse, our connecting flight to Ohio and Kelly's wedding delayed several hours, followed by another 3 hours in the air. 'Wiggy' does not quite describe the kids mental state, but pretty close. Eitan and Madeleine amuse themselves by running up and down the moving escalator while I run next to them apologising to passengers, who were generally amused by our wacked-out, jet-lagged children.
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Lake Alpine
Summer '04: with long friends we vacation family style in Bear Valley, California. Our tradition has become to re-group every two years - it is worth remarking that the numbers have increased substantially since our first réunion in Paris for New Year's 1997 shortly after graduate school
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Happy to be alive
Sonnet plays her new role 'mother', while Eitan seems quite happy to be alive (Oct'01). The early days were quite a transition at Lauderdale Mansion, and many staples were abondoned - restaurants, books, our nerves - but of course the trade-offs have been well worth it especially for moments like these. On occassion, Eitan completely cried out, would fall asleep in my lap, or we would have a family nap together. This a precious time before the (mostly friendly) competition arrived 16 months later.
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Thursday, March 9
Peanut
Sonnet and I were walking through St John's Wood in North London when I took this photograph around Halloween, 2001. I think we were both still in shock about parenthood - or at least, exhausted from lack of sleep. Katie flew over from NYC straight away to meet her nephew, while Sonnet's cousin Mora spent a month with us allowing Sonnet to get the hang of breast-feeding and some sleep. I do recall times when I watched the clock, appreciating for the first time the true length of a minute while my son screamed bloody murder.
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